we haven't started the day care piece because my mom has to have gallbladder surgery...but in CA they had her visit with me first for a tour...then they had her there for 3 hours....then after gall bladder surgery I'm taking her regularly...as for the check I have to write...I dunno the answer and have the same delimma....they don't undertand cuz they think they're fine....
My mom is alone all day while I work (she doesn't do anything unsafe is mobile, cleans and dresses herself).....
My sister has had nothing to do with me cuz she thinks I came to get mom in l.a. to steal her money when in fact she had a hernia that no one took care of that made mom look 5 months pregnant...brought her here only for eval and surgeon said if we don't do something soon there's the possibility we cannot put the intestines back in...told all this to my sister and offered to drive mom home for the surgery....but my sister won't answer emails except to accuse me of stealing.....
write any time if you have an idea about how to explain writing the check...the alheimers 24/7 support line might have suggestions...