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Well I'm one day into my Two week break, Mum is in respite until Monday week and I am free ......

I booked Mum in for another two weeks next February.

Last night sitting in solace with just me the 2 dogs 1 cat and Pay TV was relaxing.

Today I start doing whatever I want, when I want how I want. . . . within reason of course.

I am not concerned with the lack of support from my siblings as I cannot change them. I no longer go out of my way to try and get them involved with mums care as it just causes me heartache.
This is my lot in life and sure I could change it and put mum into a ALF permanently but she isn't that far gone yet so this is it for now.

So two weeks is a lifetime for me as it is now.
 
Posts: 84 | Location?: Melbourne Australia | Registered: April 28, 2009Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post

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Dear Oz,

Good for you! Hope you have a wonderful break! You certainly deserve it!


"dj" daughter of mother with AD
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28
 
Posts: 793 | Location?: Ortonville, Michigan | Registered: October 01, 2007Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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enjoy these weeks-- you deserve them!!!!!!!
 
Posts: 291 | Registered: January 26, 2009Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Bravo Oz!
 
Posts: 323 | Location?: Montebello/Downey, CA | Registered: November 10, 2008Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Enjoy your R&R,,,the time will fly by,,so do make the most of it. Peace
 
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I hope you have a WONDERFUL time!!!!!!!!!


tiffany
 
Posts: 367 | Location?: South Georgia | Registered: September 29, 2008Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Way to go Oz!!! And good for you for already booking February. You are a good example for all of us. Enjoy!

Mari
 
Posts: 474 | Location?: California | Registered: July 30, 2008Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Ouch my head hurts ..... too much partying last night .... but he was worth it.
 
Posts: 84 | Location?: Melbourne Australia | Registered: April 28, 2009Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Oh Oz, I am so glad you are having a good time. You really need to do this every now and again.
 
Posts: 1012 | Location?: New York | Registered: June 23, 2009Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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I hope your break is everything that you thought it could be.


Advocate for my parents, Bill and Alma Jean. Mom passed in Febuary, 2009.
 
Posts: 1356 | Location?: Alvarado TX | Registered: March 02, 2009Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Congrats OZ...your post about your head hurting is so funny...he was worth it?? You go girl!! Big Grin


"people will forget what you say, people will forget what you do, but they will never forget how you made them feel" maja angelou
 
Posts: 974 | Location?: st pete,fl | Registered: August 30, 2008Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Took mums little foxy into see her today and the staff said I could bring our other dog in as well. The staff and residents love Maggie mums dog, but my boy is a Kelpie farm bred for herding sheep. He is a great dog and well trained but I fear he maybe too big.

I'm just enjoying remembering what it's like to be me, something my ex found out to his detriment over the weekend. I don't think we will have anymore on again off again after that....

Life's good!
 
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